Don't Let a Man Define You! Pick up that Mirror and talk to yourself!

Now let me say first, I do not condone domestic violence to get your point across, but this scene, she just did what we WANTED to do to those ungrateful, loveless, assholes in our lives that take us for granted, go on to the next bitch and leave us in the darkness crying alone. The Diary of a Mad Black woman, should be played once a week all over the country because It's a real issue in our society today. As women of color, we get treated badly, used up, abused, told we are ugly, not good enough, shown the end of a fist and told to get up and say "I'm OK" when we are far from that. I've had my experiences in my little life, many lessons, many stories, but what hurts me the most is a man I trusted for the past 4 years, emotionally unavailable, a liar, cheater, abusive in every way. But after you have been through thick and thin with each other, you gain a sense of respect. The part that kills me, is that I am not getting my emotional needs met, Men are great listeners, but not good at showing emotion. Why is that?

It's 2014, and we got our wish as women, Men are more sensitive, so sensitive they lay up on you and turn gay??? Really?So tell me why do the macho men act so strong and brave to everybody, but can't shed a tear for your troubles and get mad for the injustice. It's not sexual frustration that has me writing this this morning, it's this new era of selfishness, abuse, and realization that most people don't give a damn as long as their family is in tact, then when it comes to you, you're just a fucking trill ride and no emotional pun to give back to your broken heart. I keep saying I am done crying over the lack of friendship I now have, because I'm a grown woman, but I still hurt like a child. I'm strong and get tired of being strong, when I reach out to you, it is because I am sharing my heart, my intimacy. SEE INTO ME and comfort me with a hug, a kind gesture, tears, get angry. Because If you were my true friend I shouldn't have to ask you for any of this, you would already know because you treat people the way that you wanted to be treated. We have history and I'm left in the darkness after all we've been through?

Is the Mic on? SO Ladies, I picked up a mirror this morning, looked in it, not shy away and talked to myself! I told myself that I MATTER, I'm important, don't let a man define you or any human because they will fuck over you if you give them the power to! Love yourself, pamper yourself, make time for you, so that you choose more wisely next time. And look for someone emotionally available with no strings attached, one that accepts you for who you are. So Pick up that mirror ladies! Talk to yourself, because you are your worst enemy, only you can fix the damage once it's done, don't give them the power to ruin the rest of your day. This is MyYuniko, please stay tuned for more blogs to come!

CRAZY JUDGE AND CRIMINAL

This is how the justice system should work LOL ****Warning profanity used.**** This guy is a comedian on Youtube I'm checking out. I wish Judges were more harsher like this right here. Watch and read my view/opinion below.

My Views on the Justice System

I'm not political or liberal at all but, based on my life experiences with Men vs me reaching out for help through the police, the state detectives and district attorneys, The system works for the criminal 70% of the time depending on your area.

I'm a living survivor of it's fuck ups per se, my spirit is stronger but justice was not always served. I think they should have been more harsher on the convicted party and believed the evidence in my situations. Louisiana is like Hell on Earth for me, because there is so much rape and domestic violence that gets unreported before it's too late. And when you do report them, the police, the detective don't believe you at all here.

Crime is everywhere but I have to say Louisiana is on of the worst states for crime to grow.

As for my former boyfriends or guys I was dating, things got violent, turned sexually abusive, physically, and mentally manipulated through these Sadists and wolf-in-sheep's clothing.

They can call a crime consensual or a misunderstanding, use pictures of you that were sent confidentially before they became abusive and showed you a whole new world of hurt. I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy the complete violation of a woman's body for a Man to just violate again and again. And get away with it!

So Young women, young men, love each other, respect each other's personal space and teach younger generations to not abuse each other, harm each other in anyway, No human has the right to take another's life or innocence in the world. Absolutely No one.

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